I always have a hard time knowing if I am doing the right thing when I take the chance of contacting my father. There is only so much rejection that one person can pass out, and I have had my fill when it comes to him. I dont know him well enough to really have alot of bad things to say. I just dont have alot of good things either.
My children have never been considered his grandchildren, not as far as I know anyway. He has only met them 1 time. The 2nd time was suppose to be at my grandmothers funeral, but one of the boys ended up sick, and I had no one to watch him, so I had to stay home. I didnt know her well either.
My stepmom is always the one to contact me, I had tried a couple of times to send him an email, and only got one or two word replies, so I gave up. The rejection is just too much for me..yeah, I have daddy issues...thanks dad.
Well, anyway....the boys have been asking alot of questions about him lately, and I dont really have all the answers for them. I really dont know him, and he shows no interest in knowing my children, or me. He has 2 other children, who I dont really know very well either. And he has grandchildren. He spends time with them, but not me or mine. I have never really understood that. Its something he has never explained to me.
I contacted my stepmom today. I told her about the boys questions, gave her my new contact information, and asked her to please let me know next time they are near, so that my boys have a chance to meet him. they were too young to remember the first time, and I would really like them to be able to form their own opinions about him.
They have maybe sent Christmas presents 1 time for the kids, they dont call, they dont write. I am not even sure they know the kids birthdays. or even how old they are. I can understand him not taking an interest in his adult daughter, ok maybe not really seems how I was his firstborn, but to ingore the fact that he has 4 grandkids he dosnt know just baffles me. Its a concept I have never been able to grasp. I really hope they do the right thing and come see them. i think it is something the boys really need.
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